This is great. There are so many days, that I feel out of control of everything. I walk around in circles, cry, yell, whatever. The days are flying by quickly, in 5 days it will be our 18 year anniversary. We are not divorced yet, but he is gone. I am dreading it.
Thank you for the great post.
I hesitated to share this. Not because it’s private. Or controversial. But I’m afraid people will misinterpret it as an absolute.
And if there’s one universal truth about divorce, it’s that there are no absolutes.
I’m sharing this because I see a need. A void. People reaching out and wondering if their feelings are okay for the place they’re in. We all want to know that we’re “normal” and we seek reassurances that we are while silently worrying that we’re not.
In fact, it makes you feel worse.
Your feelings are what they at this moment.
And that’s okay.
And it’s also okay to want them to be different and then to work towards making them different (notice the intent is paired with action!).
I am sharing the rough outline of my emotions and mindset at…
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