This will be very helpful. I can’t wait to read it. I need help. Am 45, married 18 years, 21 together, he texted me that he had filed papers. The process has started and after 21 years under his control, I have no clue “Who I Am”, other than SAD
A fellow blogger recently recommended this book to me. I thought I would pass on the recommendation with an excerpt for those of you who need to move beyond their betrayal. Happy reading and future growing.
Betrayal has many faces, including anger, abuse, deceit, and infidelity. These feel like betrayal because they violate the implicit promise of emotional bonds, that your loved one will care about your wellbeing and never intentionally hurt you. If you’ve recently left a relationship where you felt betrayed by your partner—or if you want to repair one—it can seem impossible to view the world without the shadow of past betrayal hovering over you. As a result, you may struggle to create meaning in your life, find the strength to forgive, or build new, loving relationships.
In Living and Loving after Betrayal, therapist and relationship expert Steven Stosny offers effective tools for healing, based on his…
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